A colleague at work narrated her weekend to me and she
mentioned she had 2 dates. Out of curiosity, I asked if they’d be a second date
for either and I got a negative response. She said the one guy was a teacher
while the other guy was excited about a 50% sale at a Thrift store or in her
words “one of those stores that sell used clothes.”
This got me thinking, not just because I sometimes buy
things from thrift stores but also the fact that she will not be seeing either
one of these guys because they were “broke”, or not as well off.
So my question is: Are all girls gold diggers one way or the
other or how do we describe this.
I know we all want pretty things and guy that can afford
them, but making this a priority is wrong.
Btw, My colleague earns $80k a year so why then does she still
need a wealthy guy or one that doesn’t shop at a used clothes store?
Personally the only issue I have is that I’m Nigerian, and I
know that black men have the biggest egos and they are not okay with their
significant other earn more than they do. So for me if the guy I’m with is okay
with that, then I will be fine.
What is your take on this?
Is my colleague a gold digger or is she just looking for
comfort?
Yours Curiously,
Julz
